Though I have a few tomboyish characteristics; such as
preferring an action movie rather than a romantic one, more into sports than
into shopping, and prefer Batman over Hello Kitty any day, no matter what, I know
I’m like any other girl. Now, I may look like a girl, I may sound like a girl,
and I may act like a girl, but does that mean every girl has to have those same
aspects as I do? What if a little boy looks like a boy, sounds like a boy, but
acts like a girl? Since the day he was born, he always felt different, like he
didn’t belong, until he observed a life of a girl. In that moment he knew that
was the life he wanted, he knew he should’ve been born as a girl and not as a
boy. This is known as Gender Identity Disorder.

Psychologists have long assumed that gender depends mainly
or entirely on the way people rear their children, but that’s not the case.
Take this mother for example; her son wanted to be a girl since he was two
years old, by age 11 he began transitioning, she felt like her son died. Around
that time, her mother had to rush in and save her daughter from almost jumping
out of a window because she didn’t want to live the rest of her life being
someone she’s not. When the mother was on the
Dr. Phil Show, discussing about
the situation, two psychologists explained to her, saying that the father wasn’t
there for the child, she spent most of the time with her mother. Her mother
believed they were wrong. The father was there for the child since the very
beginning, the daughter spent most of the time with him than with her mother.
They both tried to do everything unisex, but in the end they wound up dealing
with it.
Some parents don’t accept that kind of decision when it comes
to their kids, they believe treatments such as therapy or medication could
reverse that effect. But sooner or later, they have to come to the realization
that it was not a choice, it is who they are. If you were in that mothers
shoes, what would you do?